Introduce Yourself

Hello

I love to meet and talk to new people, especially over coffee or a meal in a 1:1 setting. I make it an informal goal to meet 1 or 2 new people every week. I’m frequently surprised how a short conversation uncovers common interests, collaboration opportunities and new friendships. This blog is to focus on the process of introductions though.

Focus. Get your head “in the game”. Why are you meeting with this person? Do you have an objective? Is it friendship, collaboration or a request for help? What did you learn through “homework” (consider LinkedIn).

Greeting. Shake their hand. Look them in the eye. Intend to remember their name.

Ask an opening question and get the other person started, e.g. “tell me a little about yourself”. Active listening is required to discover commonality, strengths and interests.

Avoid the superficial. Work history is OK but consider seeking deeper insights and ask questions such as:

  • What is your purpose or passion?
  • What gets you out of bed each day?
  • What makes you unique?
  • What makes you laugh or cry?

Now it’s your turn. Consider an elevator speech or TMAY. Know the few points you want to mention. Don’t talk for 5 minutes straight; offer pauses for the other to ask questions. Focus on who you are not just what you do. It’s so easy to get caught up in our life roles.

Meeting new people is sometimes uncomfortable but with preparation and practice it will eventually come naturally.

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